Archive for December, 2014


Posted: December 31, 2014 by myTHOUGHTStoSCREEN in HOLIDAYS
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Good bye 2014!!!!! Turn up my people 2014 will be gone in a few hours!!!! and I’m super excited about this, 2015 will be a “life-defining” year for me; masters and a lot of programs already planned out. First, I did a guest post on Madam Esther’s blog today READ HERE. The plan was to do a photo re-cap of 2014 but I realized the pictures were just too many. So, instead I’m just going to go over the high points of the year for me.

Here goes….

January 2014 wasn’t the best of months. Too many lows. On the 25th I woke up and decided to chop off my hair. Best decision I made in that month though!!!

January 6th Vs January 26th

The highest point of February for me was Jide’s wedding!!!!


March still remains one of my favourite months in 2014!!! Ese’s wedding and the photoshoot with Aunty Christabel of Kristabel makeovers were the highlights of March. But that wasn’t just it, I found some sort of inner joy in that month that I can’t really explain.



June was packed mehnnn, service year finally came to an end. I clocked 21 (I finally became an actual adult) and the highest point being my genius kid sister’s convocation (Covenant University’s best graduating student College of Engineering at 19).




Work started in July and in August I went on my first ever boat abi yatch ride as part of a site inspection.


In September came Esther’s wedding, I also started writing again and Lionel Messi hit 400 career goals (Ermmm yes it was a high point for me)!!!!


Then came my cousin’s convocation in November; another genius (Bells University best graduating student College of Engineering). Also my long awaited convocation (after 2 years).

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And there came December, highlight of this month for me is the fact that I, my family, my friends, my well wishers, and you reading this got to see the end of this year.

2014 wasn’t a perfect year, who says 2015 will be, we just have to hope for the best and trust in God as always. I wish you a blessed and prosperous 2015, God will give you a pleasant surprise in the new year, He’ll do something only He can do in your life. And most importantly at the end of 2015 we’ll have enough reasons to give glory to God.

Happy New Year from My Thoughts to Screen Blog and Yours Truly Ame Uwoghiren.




Posted: December 25, 2014 by myTHOUGHTStoSCREEN in HOLIDAYS, RANDOM THOUGHTS
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YAYYYY!!!! Its Christmas (and yes that’s the best Christmas picture I’ve seen in a while), a very merry Christmas to you all. Happy birthday Sweet Baby Jesus!!! I trust you all are eating/have eaten rice and chicken. I wish you all my lovelies the blessings that come with the season now and in the New Year to come. And while we celebrate let’s not forget the reason for the season; HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WERE TOTALLY NEGLECTED ON YOUR BIRTHDAY? And all everyone cared about was eating and drinking in your name.

Christmas goes beyond the food, drinks, decorations, new clothes et al and celebrating Christmas will be totally unprofitable unless the purpose of Christ coming into the world is accomplished in your life. If God were to send His Son as an infant into to world again, would He choose you as a girl/woman to carry His Son? Would he trust you as a boy/man to care for His Son? Ponder upon these things while you celebrate and please let’s endeavor to make amends where necessary.




Hello beautiful people, my sincerest apologies for my absence. It’s been one exam or one essay to the other these past weeks and then my long awaited convocation coupled with this writer’s block from my hell. This is a follow up to the last post READ HERE and I’ll like to start by saying, no it’s not just men, women cheat too (a lottt). I’m saying this because a lot of people kept telling me that cheating wasn’t just a “men” thing. Then again the first part of this post was bordered towards just a single aspect of cheating (the fact that women had come to accept it as a part of men) I felt needed to be addressed. I mostly loved Michael’s (Mikkytush) comment on the first part of this post. Although that wasn’t what the first post was addressing, he basically lifted the thoughts off a part of this follow up post.

I read a tweet from a girl sometime ago that said “Men are hard to find this days o, so whatever your man does, keep him, because there are a million girls waiting to take your spot”. After that I had a talk with a much older woman and she said “Most women only remain in marriages or relationships no matter what their partners do because they are so concerned about what society will say if they leave their partners and the fact that they do not want to be single”. I said something about an ideology shift in the first post; here’s where it all begins. Most females feel the need to accept their men as cheats and basically do nothing about it because they feel they’d rather be with a serial cheat than be single. I believe this mind set is one of the birth mother of the ideology “All men ought to be cheats”.

You hear women telling their partners things like; you are free to do whatever you want with anybody you want, just make sure I never get to hear about it. Biko females get this into your head, MEN ARE NOT BORN CHEATS! MEN SHOULDN’T CHEAT! Let’s get this idea into heads first. Above all, your reaction to your partner cheating shouldn’t be you remaining there “for better or worse” (especially when you aren’t married to him) or asking stupid questions like “What does she have that I don’t”. If your man cheats call him to order! Don’t keep mute because you are afraid of being alone. If he continues, find your way out, and yes he’ll definitely move on to the next girl. That shouldn’t be your concern, your concern should be your self-respect and sanity, if he cheats on the next girl she will probably find her way out too. Sooner or later he’ll MOST LIKELY come to his senses or get HIV. Quit holding on to the i’m the one he comes home to belief, you are not a goat.

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Putting myself in a man’s shoe, the truth is this; looking at most females around, the first thing that would come to my mind is abeg why I nor go cheat.

In the first post, the first caller said the girl he was cheating on his wife with knew he was married and didn’t care. Unfortunately the girl is just one of the millions of females that have lost respect for the institution “marriage”. Sadly females claim to prefer dating married men because they are better providers (the na them dey pay pass mindset), more “responsible”, and have less wahala that all them single boys. This is all shades of wrong!!!  Please females leave married men people’s fathers alone!!! And the men should still learn to stand in the face of temptation!

A contributing factor to the infidelity saga is the materialistic jests most females have reduced themselves to. Most females would do anything for a man with a car, house etc (not minding where it originated from). I’m not saying it’s wrong to want these things, but biko some girls need calm down!!! I was having a chat with a friend about relationships and cheating and he said “Until recently I had this belief that all girls were prostitutes”. This hit me rather hard, why would a man with this belief ever be faithful to his partner and the sad truth is he had every right to have that ideology! I mean a quick look at most of the females around and you’ll reason in the same light. The fact remains most females have reduced themselves to that level where men no longer see the need to be faithful. The only unfortunate part being that the few good girls still in existence are at the negative receiving end of this most often.

All I’m saying is let’s stop using the “All men ‘are’ or ‘should be cheats’ ideology as an avenue to condone cheating. All men should be faithful to their partners as should the women to their men and please girls leave people’s husbands and fathers alone! And try to have a little respect for yourself and the feminine gender in general with regards to relationships. That is the only way they can give us the respect we deserve.


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